A Farm, a Rainbow, and Two Men Who Loved the Soil
The sign on U.S. 301 in King George County is bright and clear: “Gardening Gays Farm.”
At first glance it looks like any other farm sign, but the story behind it is anything but ordinary.
Two Men, One Promise
- Dragan grew up on a Croatian farm and vowed never to work the fields again.
- Kevin was raised helping his dad with lawn care in Florida and made the same promise as a teenager.
Both loved being outdoors, yet both also wanted to give it another try.
From Backyard to Brand
- 2019 – While living in Maryland, they planted a small garden behind their townhouse.
- Friends raved about the tomatoes and peppers; hashtags like
#GardeningGaystrended on their photos. - 2020 – A friend sketched a logo, and they printed T‑shirts for Dragan’s birthday.
- It was a hobby, not a grand plan.
Pandemic Push
When grocery stores emptied during COVID‑19, they saw an opportunity: grow food for themselves and others. The idea of a full farm took root.
- They scoured land near Washington, D.C., but prices were prohibitive.
- After exploring Delaware, Maryland, Pennsylvania and New Hampshire, they found a 27‑acre plot in Virginia.
- August 2021 – They moved there.
New Life, Old Roots
Friends laughed at the idea of a gay couple leaving city life for rural farming. Some friendships faded, but they embraced this new chapter.
- They now own a working farm that sells:
- Fresh produce
- Eggs
- Whole chickens
- A small shop stocks items from local vendors.
- Every Saturday in spring and fall, food trucks and brunches arrive.
- Four farm festivals a year draw many visitors.
Daily Grind
The routine is demanding:
- Chickens, sheep, ducks and guinea pigs are fed and watered each morning.
- Crops are planted after clearing fields with a bush hog.
- The men note that few people in their age group engage in such labor-intensive work.
They say this hard work teaches patience and slows life down.
Changed Priorities
- What once worried them now feels small compared to feeding animals and harvesting crops.
- They feel happier, more connected to visitors.
- Conversations about families and vacations flow naturally in a rural setting—unlike the city’s fast pace.
Community Support
The farm has earned:
- Best agricultural business
- Best family‑owned business
- Best overall business
for two consecutive years. The local community accepted them, even in a conservative area. They keep the rainbow sign year‑round because pride is part of their identity, not just a month.
A Life of Growth
They believe that doing what you love every day brings true joy. The farm is a place where they grow food, people, and themselves.