Choosing How to Feed: A Personal Story

Elsie Hewitt, partner of a well‑known comedian, recently shared her perspective on raising their daughter. She opted for formula over breastfeeding and explained why that decision felt right for her.

The Journey Begins

• Birth Timing: The baby arrived in early December, just months after the couple publicly announced their relationship.
• Health Challenges: Elsie battled severe pain and heavy periods for years before being diagnosed with endometriosis—an experience that shaped her view on motherhood.

Pregnancy Realities

• Daily Struggles: She felt sick, tired, and in pain most days.
• Breastfeeding vs. Bottle: The idea of feeding through a bottle felt safer and less pressured than the societal expectation to breastfeed.
• Shared Responsibility: Elsie wanted her partner to participate in feeding, easing the burden on herself.

Post‑Birth Obstacles

• Medical Complications: After delivery, she developed a breast infection and could not produce milk, despite her initial desire to try.
• Practical Decision: Formula feeding became the only viable option for her and the baby.

A Message of Empowerment

• No Pressure: Elsie emphasizes she never felt pressured by anyone, not even her partner.

• Healthy Choice: She believes formula was healthy for both her and the child.

  “It’s okay if you decide not to breastfeed. You can still love your child and keep yourself healthy.”

• Encouragement: She hopes her story encourages judgment‑free thinking about feeding choices.

  “Every family is different. It’s fine to pick what works best for you.”