Holiday Family Feuds: Should Politics Divide Us?

Imagine this: a sociologist compares the political divide to a cult. Some people are suggesting that we avoid family members who voted differently in the last election. But is that really a good idea? Brad Wilcox, a sociology professor from the University of Virginia, isn't a fan of this advice. He thinks it's more like what cults do—keep people isolated to control them. He suggests that instead of avoiding family, we should focus on common ground and try to understand each other's views. After the recent election, some liberal voters are talking about skipping family gatherings this holiday season. They're feeling upset and think their relatives' votes went against their values. Even a TV show host, Sunny Hostin, agrees that this election feels different—like a moral issue.

But is avoiding family the best solution? Some people are writing online about canceling family plans because they're so upset. Wilcox thinks there's a better way. He says we should be diplomatic and respectful when talking about politics. Try to find some common ground and don't make it a big fight. Wilcox says politics has become like a religion for many people. This makes it hard to see another person's view. He also says that more couples are choosing to marry someone with the same political views, and that's not a good sign for family unity. So, should politics divide us, even from our families? Wilcox thinks it's tragic. He reminds us that family should come first, and we'll need each other when times are tough.

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