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Marriage, Obligations, and the Long Road Ahead

USAFriday, November 28, 2025
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The 38-Year Marriage

The Journey

  • Duration: 38 years
  • Family: 3 grown kids, 4 grandkids
  • Questions:
  • Staying out of duty or past decision?
  • Should have walked away years ago?

Considerations

  • Potential family upheaval
  • Worth of freedom vs. hassle and heartache
  • Options:
  • Talking to a counselor
  • Making a list of reasons to stay or leave

Final Thought

"Life isn't perfect, but if unhappiness is the daily reality, it's never too late for a change."

The Swearing Struggle

The Habit

  • Trying to curb swearing, especially around kids
  • Habit creeping back

Possible Triggers

  • Moving to a new place
  • Stress and nervousness

Solution

  • Finding ways to manage stress
  • Breaking the habit

Mom's Disapproval in Missouri

The Situation

  • Dating for 4 months
  • Mom hates the guy because of something he said years ago
  • Mom doesn't know they're dating

The Challenge

  • Friends have noticed positive changes in the guy
  • How to convince Mom?

Advice

  • Slow and steady wins the race
  • Start by mentioning the positive changes
  • Let Mom see the new him before revealing the relationship

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