Mother’s Mood Swings Hurt Her Kids

A mother named Aline has a history of sudden mood changes. She can be kind one moment and harsh the next, often shouting sharp words. People come into her life and leave quickly because of these shifts. Aline has three children: 11, 17 and 25. She promises them a lot but then says they are “unworthy. ” The eldest left home at 18 and has never returned. He struggled with the emotional hurt but now feels stable, helped by his uncle and a supportive aunt. The younger two children suffer too. They only receive emotional support, but the abuse is not physical. The mother believes everything is the aunt’s fault and refuses therapy, claiming she knows more than professionals.

The aunt wonders how to help her grandchildren. One suggestion is to let the 18‑year‑old live with a relative while he decides on school or work. For the 11‑year‑old, the father’s involvement matters; if he can be present, custody might change. A family lawyer could offer guidance. Another story involves a woman who lost her boyfriend fifteen months ago. She feels deeply depressed and struggles to move on. Experts say healing is gradual: two steps forward, one step back. They recommend joining a support group or seeing a therapist to process grief. The common theme is that mental health issues in adults can harm children. Support from family, professional help, and clear boundaries are key to protecting young people.

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