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The Search for a Missing Father in Washington's Wilderness
Washington, Wenatchee, USASunday, June 8, 2025
Decker’s background is complex. He is an Army veteran with eight years of service, including time in Afghanistan. He is also a member of the Washington National Guard, but is currently facing disciplinary action for missed drills. He had been experiencing homelessness, living in his car, motels, or camping locally. Despite his struggles, he was actively involved in his daughters’ lives, attending their extracurricular activities.
Whitney had concerns about Decker’s mental health. He had been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder but was not taking his medication. In September 2024, a judge granted a parenting plan with limitations after an incident where Decker kept the girls overnight at a homeless shelter and allowed them to go to a corner store unsupervised. The new plan included a psychiatric evaluation, mandatory mental health counseling, and a domestic violence evaluation. Whitney believes the tragedy could have been prevented if Decker had better access to mental health support as a veteran.
The community is in mourning. The three sisters were beloved by all who knew them. They were performers and dancers, known for their laughter, curiosity, and spirit. A GoFundMe has raised over $1. 1 million to support Whitney through this devastating loss. The flag at the Chelan County Courthouse flies at half-staff in memory of the girls. As the search for Decker continues, the community stands united in grief and support for Whitney and her lost daughters.
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