Trust in Crisis: Lessons from War to Rebuild Our Communities
The Deeper Problem
Trust isn't just about politics. It's about how we treat each other. People are feeling ignored and left behind. This isn't new. It's been happening for years. But it's getting worse.
The Role of Trust in War and Communities
In war, trust is everything. Soldiers rely on each other to survive. Without trust, even the strongest army can fail. The same goes for communities. When people don't trust each other, everything falls apart.
Signs of Deeper Problems:
- Election workers are threatened.
- Public servants are harassed.
- The National Guard is deployed without governors' requests.
- ICE raids happen without transparency.
What People Want
People are tired. Tired of division. Tired of being talked at instead of listened to. They want leaders who:
- Care
- Show up
- Tell the truth
- Not just in words, but in actions
Lessons from War
War teaches us the limits of force. You can't win with weapons alone. Lasting peace comes from relationships. The same goes for communities.
What Works:
- Humility
- Presence
- Shared purpose
A trusted neighbor can de-escalate tension faster than a patrol car. A local leader who shows up consistently can do more than any press release.
Shared Hardship Builds Stronger Bonds
After 9/11, it wasn't politics that united us. It was need. First responders ran into danger. Strangers helped strangers. People lined up to serve.
What If We Brought That Same Urgency to the Civic Threats We Face Now?
- Disinformation
- Institutional distrust
- Division
Service is the Antidote to Polarization
In the military, people from every background serve together. They don't always agree, but they trust each other. Their lives depend on it.
Service Reconnects Us:
- Mentoring a student
- Volunteering at a food bank
Rebuilding Trust
Rebuilding trust won't be easy. But it's possible. It starts with each of us.
What We Can Do:
- Show up
- Tell the truth
- Stay present
Protecting democracy isn't just the job of politicians. It's the work of all of us. If we bring the discipline, humility, and sense of mission we carry in our daily lives to our communities, we can build something stronger than any victory. A democracy worthy of our trust.