Imagine this: You're invited to a wedding, and you start making demands about the menu. This isn't cool, claims a wedding expert. If you're trying to approach a wedding menu with your choice habits, you would be better eating elsewhere.

        Wedding food has been the hot topic. Wedding planners, brides, and grooms are tired of hearing about diets and special requests. This is a celebration, not a dietary meeting.

        Couples are sick of hearing about diets. They have enough stress planning their wedding. The last thing they want to think about is special meal requests. Don't bother them with PREFERENCES, only share RESTRICTIONS. For example,  allergies or medical restrictions. It's not a restaurant, it's a celebration.

        You should go to a wedding to be festive, not to make demands. You should know that these requests can be annoying for the couple. A general rule is if it's not a medical issue, do not post it on the RSVP. Everyone will be happy if they don't get to hear your food preferences. That way, you can enjoy the party.

        Some guests, unfortunately, do this. They list things like “Please have mac n cheese" or "I don’t want a chocolate cake. ” They can eat wherever they want for the rest of the year. Why bother with your food preferences during someone else’s special day? It's better to enjoy the party as it is.

        If you have a medical issue, tell the couple. Otherwise, it's a wedding, not a buffet. Eat what you're given, and enjoy the moment with the bride and groom.

Wedding Food Drama: Guests Who Demand a Say

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