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Why Churches Must Speak Up About Abuse

USAMonday, October 20, 2025
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It Happens Inside, Too

Many Christian women face violence at home. But when they ask for help, they often hear things like:

"Pray more" "Be more submissive."

This makes things worse. These women need safety, support, and someone to believe them.


The Church Should Be a Safe Place

But sometimes, it's not. Many pastors don't talk about abuse. This silence makes women feel alone and ashamed. They need the church to speak up. They need to know abuse is wrong. And they need help to escape it.


Abuse is About Control

It's not about stress or bad communication. Couples counseling can even make things worse. The church should:

  • Help women leave safely
  • Connect them with professional help

Spiritual Abuse is Just as Serious

Using Scripture to control or silence someone is wrong. The church should preach freedom, not control. They should support women, not pressure them to stay.


Recovery Takes Time

Women need patience, encouragement, and real help. The church should:

  • Walk with them
  • Listen
  • Pray
  • Connect them with professionals

Each woman's healing journey is unique. The church should respect that.


The Gospel is About Love and Protection

It's not about sending women back into danger. The church must speak up. They should:

  • Preach about abuse
  • Share resources
  • Listen to survivors

Silence is not an option. Protection is a must.

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